Kugonana ndi mlendo kapena bwenzi latsopano kuli ndi zabwino zake. Zimawonjezera zochitika, ngakhale lingaliro la choletsedwa chotero kwa ambiri limadzutsa, kuwerengera mphamvu ndi malingaliro a mnzanuyo. Kugonana mu bar kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosasangalatsa ngati pabedi. Kugonana kumatako ndi kusisita kwa banjali kumayenera kuyamikiridwa ndi kulimbikitsidwa.
Kanemayu angagwirizane ndi dzina lina, koma palibe chilichonse chokhudza mwana ndi amayi, chifukwa amayi samawoneka ngati azaka 25, ndi ana aamuna, ali ndi zaka 20, koma kugonana kotentha kumatako kunakhala kozizira.